Originally posted by lasersailor184
All the time, it takes me 30-45 minutes to fall asleep. Is this abnormal? Or is it just my ADD riddled mind keeping me up?
"Normal" time to fall asleep is 20 minutes or less.
We all have a biologic clock, which synchronizes itself by specific inputs. In order of importance, our brains set the "wake up" time by: Habit (getting up the same time every day); bright light (sunlight is about 20 times more intense than even bright indoor light); eating; and activity.
Some have strong clocks, and can sleep easily no matter what. Those who have less intense signals from their clocks may have trouble getting to sleep or staying asleep. If you're someone with a weaker clock, expect that you may have to coddle it if you want to have regular sleep patterns when you need them.
Rules for better sleep:
Get up at nearly the same time every day. That helps set your clock. Focus on the time you get up because you can force yourself to get out of bed, but you can't force yourself to fall asleep.Even if you just got to sleep an hour earlier, sleeping in may confuse the clock and make it harder to get to sleep other days. Be consistent!
Do not nap, especially when you're fighting insomnia. When you have trouble getting to sleep, remember that being tired is a GOOD thing, not something to get frustrated over. Frustration keeps you awake, because it causes adrenaline and other stress hormones to release -- not good when you're trying to get to sleep.
Do NOT lay in bed awake. Tossing and turning, or reading/TV, teach your body to be awake in bed -- and that's the habit we're trying to break Allow no more than 20 minutes to fall asleep. If you can't fall asleep in that time, get out of the bed and read (or do something boring -- NOT computer games!) until tired enough to try again. Being in bed "resting" also allows your brain to get "micro sleeps", short periods of 30 seconds to a few minutes that DO NOT rest you but DO get you just a little less tired -- so its even harder to get into good sleep. Get out of bed!
Use the bed for only 2 things, one of which is sleep. Don't do work, or watch TV, or whatever -- you want your body to think of "bed" and "sleep" as if they were one word, the same thing.
If you still have trouble breaking the habit of insomnia, you can try sleep restriction therapy. Pick your wake up time, and don't even try to go to bed until 5 hours before that. Follow all the rules above, even if it means you only get a couple hours' sleep that night. Get out of bed at the right time even id you just fell asleep. DO NOT NAP.
Because of the extra fatigue that program produces, most healthy people will find that they get to sleep and stay asleep well the next night, or the night after that at worst.