Originally posted by texasmom
I'm trying to figure out if y'all are really this cynical, or if it's some kind of false macho bravado here.
Just speaking the words of a grizzled veteran here.
I highlighted the parts I did because I found them to be in large part true.
Now let me say from the start i dont hate women. In fact I love women.
Right up to the point where Im in a relationship with one and really get to know them
But seriously I tend to get along with women Im not involved with fine.
Its the ones I have ended up in a relationship with where thew problems start and where I find the words to the song holds true.
I think part of the problem is..well they have been women.
I say that because being a woman there isnt much of anything I can do about it.
If a man were to give me the same aggrivation that some women have I'd Have simply knuckled down with em and two hours later be drinking a beer with the person.
Cant quite get away with that sort of thing with a woman.
And I think alot of women know this and use it to their advantage
Its like the old joke about why kids are made so cute.
Its to keep you from strangling them. And grandkids are your reward for not doing so. LOL
But seriously I find that dealing with women is alot like dealing with a kid.
you almost HAVE to use the same kind of logic because alot of times that is exactly the way they behave.
Difference is, you can dicipline your kid. Most women arent into that sort of thing LOL
With women they tend to push and push and pushj and B and B and B untill you go completely banannas yelling and cussing.
Then everything is ok again. Just like a kid after he or she has been scolded by their parent.
Unfortunately. sexually I like woman so much that even my feminine side is a lesbian
20+ years and Im still married. Its...ok
But no way would I do it again.
Its just not worth the day to day aggrivation
Ideally I think the best relationship would be one where you get together, have a good time and what not. and then she goes home to her place and I to mine.
Then MAYBE get married at age 70 when its to your mutual benifit to take care of one another and make sure each other takes the right pills on time every day.
Before that. This watermelon is for the birds
I mean its ok but it becomes like a tuna sandwich.
Now I like Tuna fish sandwiches.
But its not what I want to eat every day of my life.
It gets old