When i say "power" i don't mean power over your spouse. I mean my mother was taught by her mother and so on and so on that if your having a fight or you want your husband to do something then withold sex and you will get what you want. When in truth you are not just hurting him you are hurting yourself as well so we don't have that power of men like so many generations were taught. There is a "power" in relationships its called LOVE..... if you don't have that you don't have anything.
