One thing that needs to be pointed out when talking about the F4Us "bad" stall habits is that most of the info is anecdotal, not all, but most of it. And this is in comparison to other more stable Naval aircraft which by design have to have better low speed handling that non Naval aircraft. The F4U was less stable than the F4F but was it less stable than the P-51?
Remember, the guys who had issues with the poor low speed handling of the F4U had at best flown an F4F, most only an SNJ trainer. The F4U was a monster compared to the F4F and in great part the anecdotal stories, I believe, are a result of even well trained and experienced high hour pilots coming to grips with a 2000hp 10,000+ lbs aircraft. In most cases that is close to double the HP and lbs of their previous aircraft. I do not deny that it was a handful compared to previous aircraft, but if you trained a pilot in the F6F and then had them transition to the F4U I doubt they would have had much of a problem.
On the separate issue of the in-game performance, I have no data to support, but I tend to think the F4U is a tad overdone, as are the 110c and Hurricanes while the 190, Mossie and F6F could be improved a bit.