Guess whatever you like.  In a hundred years, none of us are going to be here anyway, I really don't care to sympathize with a bunch of people I consider clueless.  I don't care one bit if you don't "give a crap" when something terrible happens to my town.  Face it, were all here temporarily, I don't intend to waste much of my time making sure some one else approves of what I think or do.  I tend to my family.  If everyone simply did that, do you know how far ahead we'd be without the stupid rhetoric tossed about?