what this really boils down to, (and no offense steve, ur very good at what you do in a pony/whatever - your "style") is Steve has always felt somewhat neglected when the "names" are mentioned.
does this make him any less talented or skilled? not at all, but it does reflect how the community perceives "names."
Steve has never claimed to be anything more than he ever has been; he's honest with his self-assessment, and like i said, very good at being "Steve."
So Steve, my only suggestion in accomplishing what you want, is to take a few months fly a bunch of different planes, and fly alone, or with one wingy into major trouble, scrape your way in or out, survival be damned and then you'll acquire that reputation for being one of the "names." or at least in that particular group of "names."
or not.
