You are correct there are always more than one antagonist in every argument.
I never stated that he was apart of the debate, simply a toon pilot trying to enjoy a game. I should also mention that one of the major factors involved with the individual to leave was the use of ethnic slurs, now you tell me who is right or wrong, do you think that the person who left may have been on the defensive based on the comments made?
Here's another point for you: If people are talking crud based on ethnic or religious belief over a one of the countless channels and it forces someone to leave does that mean the individual is wrong and an antagonist?
I was not present during this political regurgitation that night...... but....
I agree politics should not be brought into the game. As for "ethnic slurs", that is a newer word. Times have changed and some judge on color. I only use color to judge when the other person brings it to the table. Me being white or actually Irish, English, American Indian..... I'm not able to use those so called slurs. The only folks, it seems, that are allowed to use those so called slurs without sitting the world on it's side are folks of color, any color.
Let's not forget the Texas town that was going to outlaw a certain "N" word punishable by a $500.00 fine. Folks of color balked and said it was a racist law because some blacks use it as a friendly greeting. So the law was going to be rewritten so that if the term was used in a friendly manner it was ok. That was found to be illegal so the whole mess was dropped.
I figure every legal citizen here in the States is an American..... no matter what race, creed or color. I will continue to think that way till an individual choses to seperate him or herself using one of those criteria.