Whew, alot you wrote their eye, I have to say some punctuation would help me read it
His diary is available by writing his family. They still live in the same city in Quebec, there is also a version available to the public via the war archives. I reccomend searching the Canadian war archives for a version first. The difference between the two are very slight.
First: wingmen.. Sorry to pop your bubble. He was not fighting 8 to 1 and he wasn't up against germans either at malta. His malta kills were mostly italian. He lost wingmen because he would go haring off like an bellybutton after easy kills or engage on suicidal manuevers then duck out, leaving his wingman unprotected. This BTW is not the way to make friends... After a short period of time they stuck him in a vic with another pair of fighters and ignored him after they engaged.
He was shot down, losing part of his foot, not helping a wingman but rather by engaging a group of italian fighters below a bomber wing. After shooting one down he was forced to break off and run when several higher fighters engaged him. Over the water his plane had a wing damaged and went into a spin. There was no wingman in the vicinity, they weren't giving him one anymore by that time!
As for JEJ's opinion of him, it's clearly stated in his book Wing leader. JeJ thought he was an uncontrollable twit. Mostly after having him use a tiger moth to buzz the field for hours.
Hugh Godfrey was hardly incompetent. He was a great pilot and excellent leader. He just had no patience with a fool who couldn't stay where he was supposed to be and refused to work as a team player. Add in the fact Buerling's infamous 190 kill embarassed him in the middle of a room of pilots and well....
(This was BTW after Buerling managed to seperate from a flight, kill a 190 and return without being noticed. He then reported it as an afterthought. Godfrey thought he was a liar and had the guncam film played. Which clearly showed him killing a 190)
And finally, buerling did duck responsibility like crazy. No-one knows really why he eveded promotions, except that he was terribly insecure. He really didn't feel he deserved the recognition he got. As for that bit about the rcaf hating him? a defenite YES! but it wasn't because he was french canadian or a non-drinker. It was because he gave them his honest (and brutal) opinion of them. This is a surefire way of getting people to mislike you!