I can understand what the OP is saying, and what every one else is saying also, sometimes it is nice to receive a <S> when the fight was worthy. I try to give out a <S> when ever a good fight was had, I think Lute said he sends one before he hits the ground, I will do the same thing,
but if I am being hourded The <S> or G/F I send is usually sarcastic and meant to piss them off.
although if I am fighting someone who does a great job of killing me I will always send a <S> even if he did it in a way that was "dweeby" except for a vulch, they get no <S>.
ink