Why not take the person you shot down aside and show then HOW to fight instead of ridiculing them?
Anyone who asks me a question I will always give them an informed answer as to what happened and why they died. I will even send film to anyone who requests. As for going to the DA/TA with them to work on things at that very moment...that depends on my mood. I don't pay $15/mo to spend hours teaching people how to fly in the DA/TA but I will do it from time to time. Most people learn ACM on their own.
Here are the steps to becoming an ace:
Step 1: Film your sorties.
Step 2: When you die to someone better, watch the sortie from yours and his perspectives and see what he did. Think about what you could have done differently, most times you will figure it out no your own but if you absolutely cannot, start a thread in the Help and Training, post the film trimmed down and ask for analysis.
Step 3: Practice 1v1s in the DA with vets who are in there mixing it up at a side base. They will NEVER turn you down. The more the merrier, just make sure you know the rules of engagement.
Step 4: Always be learning from your failures. If you keep doing the same thing wrong over and over again and fail to make an adjustment, you will never get better.