This all stems from large squads. Too many squad COs with this stupid loyalty to a chess piece. They say, "No! We're a Bish squad!", or "No we're a Rook squad!", and that keeps large groups of guys flying on the other side.
If your buddies get mad at ya , they wasn't your buddy to begin with. I fly where i want to fly and you can too. If your squad don't like it....well you're in the wrong squad.