We all play with in the same parameters, that's all that should matter.
WHAT IF your P-38 crashed any time you flew near a cloud? Even a tiny one could rip your wings off and break your prop.
Would you say "ummm HiTech, something isn't right. Thin clouds shouldn't tear aircraft apart just from flying near them. Can we get a fix for this?"
or would you say "well, clouds are bad in this game. Learn to fly better and don't fly near clouds. Anyone who asks for realistic clouds is a moron."
I know which side of the above you stand on when it comes to tanks, trees and shrubbery. And in my opinion your position on it is about the stupidest thing I've read in a while. But if that's how you feel, more power to ya. THE REST OF US would like small trees and shrubbery that are not more powerful than a main battle tank.