I am thinking back about 3years when I first started playing AH2, (or any flight sim for that matter) I did not even have a stick. I upped on bish base in furball arena with my mouse for flight control, and looked for something to shoot down. I did not even try the offline mode before I jumped into my 2week trial.
I flew several sorties before I finally got a kill, and offcourse it was a ho I did. I thought I did good, and after that kill I tried to copy the move again. Only frustrating thing for me was all those timid guys that did some "miracle move" and disappeared from my sight only to kill me from behind???

I got lucky and ho killed some more guys, and got accused for hoing.. Hoing?? Never heard of..

I think my first week I was all about hoing, that was the only way I could get rounds at someone. And I still had no clue what the people accusing me of hoing were talking about.

Then I finally had to ask, what is a ho??
Ok, that was not a popular thing to do... At that point I learned that this game actually was not all about "the kill", but about the fight. Next thing I learned was that I needed a stick and some serious training to learn the 3D feel of the game. At that point I was totally 2D and all I could do was flat turns..

No wonder I was killed alot!
My thoughts when I get hoed is that the hoer probably is at the point I was back then, or if he has been around for awhile he just has not been so well taken care of and helped out as I did. I was asking alot of questions in the beginning, I really wanted to learn to fight on the terms of the big community. And I got alot of good help improving my skill until I felt I was ready to get out of the nest and spread my wings alone again.
I am still learning day by day, and offcourse I get a little mad sometimes if say I engage a better turning plane than my hog just to see how long I can stay alive, and all I get is a ho shot blowing me to pieces..

But after getting hoed enough I have learned to dictate the merge into my favour instead, or atleast I try to. Or if I KNOW who I am fighting and I know the pilot is a no-hoer for sure. Then I can merge almost head on and really close just to even the odds and see who's the better stick after that.

But I like the thrill of not knowing what you are up against, that's really the spice in this game. Especially in the MA arenas, were you always run into new guys you've never fought before.

Randomly some of them are hoers, but in general I try to approach them just like I allready knew that.