You know,that's really something to think about.
I'm former military and I"m definitely one of those guys whom does believe in having respect for fellow military members,friend or enemy,with some exceptions (could never respect members of the SS,especially those who ran the concentration camps.)I remember escape and evasion class,where we were briefed on how to behave as prisoners of war,and it really freaked me out at first to find out that as a prisoner,military courtesy was to be extended to ENEMY personell. For instance,if you were brought before the camps commandant,you definitely WOULD have to salute him. If I had been in a war( or maybe only peace time),I would be one of those guys you would see at say a reunion for former enemies.