In eve online we have a saying from way back (I've been in that game for over 7 years now) 'Internet Spaceships is serious buisness'.
in many respects, this applies here too - Internet Airplanes is serious buisness. And I do not think calling something a 'video-game' likes its some slander quite works - this is not a video game in th old fashioned sense - this is an MMO, and MMOs are very serious things indeed. if you disagree, then you are just not playing enough/well/seriously.
Honestly, the whole - 'its just a game guys' argument is crap. its a game for sure, and a serious on at that.