Is there... like a website that lists which shots people are giving me that I shouldn't be taking?
I don;t think that is the issue at all. I don;t like them and I will make fun of any one that takes them. Do I take them? Sure, if you catch me taking off or if you dove in to join a 4 vs 1, if you hoed me several times and failed, but even that does not happen that often. It is not my first choice or even last choice. It is the I am pissed off choice or the I thought you were the guy that vulched me earlier choice

But, I am not about to fly for 10 minutes to find someone to face shoot with only to end up in the tower or limping back. It is just stupid.
Now, what you do is up to you (you in general not you personally). The problems start when a HOer gets called out. For some reason, even though they will explain to you how valid and historical the shot is, they get really messed up if you tell them they did it. Try in on 200 and see
As I said, never in the history of human kind has anyone been so upset, as HOer being told he HOed
