OK, if I take the all times out will you answer that question then? Long post but I did not see an answer to the question does cause the fights and the complaining. We agree on the rest. If you have a chance to HO me in anything less than 3 vs 1, I made a mistake but that is not the scenario I described.
I'm not avoiding your question, I just don't really understand it the way you have it worded.
Are you upset about the HO? Yes, I think it's acceptable, anytime someone wants to try it on me. I always expect it, and always do my best to not get hit with it. Give it your best shot, and shoot me if you can. It's what we're here for. Actually, I intend to make that poor opportunity for you to HO me your absolute best chance of beating me. Better take advantage of it while you can
Are you upset about ganging? Yes, I think it's acceptable, and if someone wants to do that, go for it. Again, I always expect it when multiple cons are around, so do my best to avoid it and even to control the situation, if I can. Some of my absolute favorite, most-memorable fights have come as a result of being outnumbered, out-E'ed, out-turned, or whatever. "I" won't gang, because I see no "sport" in it. I win almost all of the 1 vs. 1 fights I'm in, and see zero thrill in having "help". So, again, I'm avoiding ganging someone for selfish reasons... The thrill of ganging someone isn't worth my time. I'm not really being "classy" by avoiding the gang. Heck, I'm often hoping my countryman will die so I can jump in, lol.
Are you upset about the combination of ganging and HOing? Yes, I think it's acceptable.
I dislike being ganged, much more than I dislike being HO'ed. I dislike someone avoiding the HO for "ethical" reasons much more than I dislike being HO'ed.