If you dont have the game you probably shouldnt even be commenting. Yes the game BF3 is capable of recording serious eye candy, yet so was CODBO and that game sucks. As far as the air game goes you will be extremely dissapointed going from a game like Aces High to BF3. Aces High has so much more flight control, so much better support, has Track IR, has a huge stable of available war planes and ground vehicles. If it was even close to BF3 graphics-wise I'd never play another game. And communications? Comms in BF3 sucks if your used to AH, where you have any number of voice channels available. Besides TS you only have a cumbersome drag and drop in game VOIP which doesnt work worth a darn anyways. Then to make it worse the squad system is messed up and your squad will end up getting split into different teams when the map changes anyways due to server balances. The end result is, even if your on a squad, and I am, you have to use TS3 with 1/2 on one team and the other 1/2 on another. And you end up talking about beer or baseball. A different experiences from the constant "check 6's" on Aces High.
So after the first few days of eye candy "wow" you start seeing the limits of this game. BF3 is not only not a flight sim its not even a flight game. Theres no real skil involved, no sticks or throttles, no comms, no teamwork. Only eye candy and waiting to get one of two airplanes. Plus its buggy and already being hacked.
I left Aces High due to the numbers drop and stale game play. I did not leave to play BF3 the flight game, and neither should you.
Checking out the video, there were also some great videos of mid airs with the jets. Spectacular. I haven't got BF3 yet, I'm broke, yes so broke that I couldn't afford the game. So grumpily I went back to MW2 online. There is an obvious drop in numbers on their servers. At one point there were just four of us in a free for all. I'm guessing everyone has migrated, at least until MW3 comes out.
As for the experience levels of the flyers in BF3. I wouldn't worry too much. The game is barely out. Once they get the hang of it, there'll be seriously epic battles. The AH brigade have the upper hand right not but it won't last.