12,800 empty versus 17,800. Nearly 40%. Max weight is 21,600. Almost 3x the 109 more than double the 190 and almost 2x the 51.
109 is very small, that's like comparing to a Piper Cub. Let's compare it to something with about the same mass that had a stick, say a P-47?
I'll just take the numbers from wikipedia for this because I don't know where else to get them without doing a lot of research. If anyone knows a good source from the top of their head please confirm this.
P-38 max takeoff weight: 21,600lb
P-47 max takeoff weight: 17,500lb
So that's a 4,100lb difference. I admit that is significant but it's not enough to give it a yoke instead of a stick.
Also keep in mind that you wont be normally taking off with everything you can carry on board and if you will you wont be planning on maneuvering right after take off.