I'm also one of the guys that really likes it when two large forces clash. About even second-best for me is either going into a horde with alt and E in something fast or finding a decent 1v1. I find sometimes the 1v1 happens on the way to the horde.
Maybe I haven't reached the point in my development where 'picking lemmings' loses its fun, but it still makes me smile every time. Maybe I'm just a simple creature.
I believe I've finally wrapped my head somewhat around guys like Fugi's frustration, in that they get more enjoyment out of 1v1s but also enjoy some unpredictability in the area as far as friendlies and bandits ebbing and flowing. Unfortunately, it's a hard thing to find on a consistent basis, you usually wind up either with friendlies helping you when you don't want it, or getting gangbanged.
When either of those things happen to me, I either take enjoyment out of trying to survive the gangbang and egress successfully, maybe dragging the enemy under inbound friendlies, or pushing on toward enemy territory with the friendlies that came along. I view it as side vs side first, and a happy circumstance that the bandit and I happened to get a couple minutes alone before the other people came along. Guys like Fugi seem to place more value on the 1v1 time, and the side vs side encroaching on that frustrates them.
It's a taste in play that's somewhat rare, Fugi is well documented in his belief it used to be much more common than it is now. I can't say, I haven't been around that long. I've been simming for ~6 years, and I wouldn't say when I started it was ever common, but I will agree it's less common now than it was when I started.
It's another problem that I think has no codable solution. My opinion on it is, the MA is a free for all, side based arena. "If it's red, it's dead" should always be what you expect from your enemies. What you do is your choice, whether to HO or not, whether to horde or not, whether to gang or not, etc. That is the nature of the arena.
To me, it seems the only way to get gameplay like Fugi desires is to get people together who are of like mind basically in their own arena. I've seen that attitude somewhat more prevalent in AvA, for example.
Btw, Fugi I'm not saying 'If you don't like it, go somewhere else, nyah.' I'm just saying I believe that is what it would take to solve your problem. Honestly I feel bad that guys like you can't find the gameplay you like as often as you'd like it. I just don't agree with trying to ice skate uphill to make the MA fit that playstyle.
Wiley.