This game is was and always will be about the FIGHT. The only reason I log on is to get into a fight. Sure I like to win but, even when I lose, I still have a good time uder the right conditions.
The reason many of us "fighters" cry foul to the "sheep" is they DO need to learn to break away from the flock to promote the game. If AH degrades to nothing but hordes avoiding each other and clubbing the minor resistance they encounter, eventually the minor resistance will disappear. Without ANY resistance the game will dry up and die. After all, what's the point of a multiplayer game where you never run into another player? Think about that the next time you're in the tower looking for that friendly darbar, or saddle up for that mission to wipe out an undefended base, or dive on that lone con with three enemies already on his six.
There is a large learning curve to this game and it takes a good amount of time to get proficient. So roll with the crowd till you get comfortable. But eventually you need to test yourself oudside the the flock. Trust me, it's much more fun to be a wolf than it is to be a sheep.