I understand your desire, but I can see multiple ways to implement it.
1. Save trim mode, this is just push a button and it locks trim into the current settings from the auto pilot.
Then when you go out of auto pilot, trim will always return to these settings like the return to combat trim position now.
2. Similar to above , but is set from the .trim command like your request.
3. Set with either of the 2 methods, but instead of always going to these settings when turning auto pilot off, it only goes to that position when a button is pressed.
I don't think I would implement 3 , because I believe it's major use would be a get out of jail free card with planes like the 109 in high speed dives.
I sorta like the idea of having both 1 & 2, I.E. the .trim command just overrides the position set by mode 1. Also I don't think they would move instantly , but take a few seconds to move from auto pilot to preset position.
HiTech