Pepprr
There was a reason why I listed it as, "but a few options". I had the feeling that there was something that would be better than what I was listing. And truthfully, I likely would not have thought of your option for a while, if at all, if you had not said something. I did not mean it as a permanent option, but as to deal with what was happening at this moment. Nor did I mean that she should have to act like a guy and stop flying whatever she truly enjoys flying.
You are absolutely correct. She shouldn't have to change her name nor quit being herself. I truly meant no harm with the option I listed.
Let it be known that I do not hold any ill will or intent towards the 71sqn. Pepprr's response had me reread my option with a different mindset, and it does make it sound like the 71sqn may not a good squad to be in. That is NOT the case. I just didn't want to see someone quit over something like this when I mentioned that Esme should leave the squad. I apologize if this is how my option came to look to the 71sqn members and everyone else.