Would it really be that hard to avoid the "death" if you .ef really quick? It's extremely easy to tell when you're going to get blown up unless your SA in a field gun sucks. I say +1 to the wish, it's lame waiting for someone to up only to get poked at by 88mm. And flying far away from the field just means they'll grab 10K of alt and BnZ you til you get on their 6 and they run back to ack. A lone fighter plane circling a field means one thing and one thing only: he wants to vulch. I've done it before and I'll gladly allow some breathing room for you in order for us to have a good fight.
Fixed. So hovering right over a field gets you a fight? Here's what really happens:
1. As soon a somebody starts their takeoff roll, you swoop down and rocket/cannon vulch him.
2. You wait until he makes it to the end of the runway and
then you swoop down on him.
3. If the upper survives enough high speed passes, the former perch-sitter runs home and/or has one of his wingmen pick him.
4. The upper survives enough high speed passes to somewhat equalize e states and the perch guy finally gets the fight he says he wants.
#4 is an aberration in most cases. Maybe in your case as well. Experience tells me most times it will
not be #4.
How about instead of directly above, try flying on the side of his field, under 10k and opposite of the side you came from. That would tell him that you're not looking to run home.