It was weird, I would get discoed for a month, progressively getting worse almost each evening, finally getting discoed every few minutes to maybe twice in a minute. Tyfoo suggested to bypass my router and see what happened, since I had installed a new dsl modem. So I bypassed the router as the modem and router are both on my desk. I played for hours then after bypassing the router. I had sent in a complaint to my isp about my problem. The next night my speed seems to be a bit faster, and haven't been disco'd using my router. I'm thinking they must have checked and did something.
Also a tech wants to come out and check things. I may end up with a spare modem, but the old one I was using was getting pretty hot, and the new one is running barely warm. I dunno, Im not a tech person and I maybe should have called them first, but a couple years ago when I had a problem they didn't want to help at all. Anyway I may get fixed up here in a day or two and be ok.