Survival of my family is all I need Groth. My families won't go into the ovens while I'm alive, and I'm wearing the uniform and flying or supporting combat ops daily with numerous allied nations all going the same direction and using very similar ROE, so I'm not just arguing hypotheticals. I do this every day at work and have been doing so my entire adult life, considering that desert storm kicked off before I turned 21 and I was in uniform when that happened.
And when the lotus eaters come begging for my help I'll be there even though they damn me now. It's been that way for a long time, I suppose. For now, I don't want to see anyone else put in the ovens, or more recently, burning in a cage for a propaganda video on liveleak. Armchair quarterback and the rabbits will hate me now, praise me if I or others like me save them and their families, then turn around and damn us the next day. It's always like that for people like me and, apparently, people like you.