Invariable it turns personal because Hitech won't drop everything and do what you tell him to do and thank you with gushing praise for how fortunate he is to have you debugging his game for him. At which point Hitech becomes the bad guy and you geniuses of obvious observation, victimized hero's ignored and spurned by that looser Hitech.
And he even lets you talk garbage about him in his own forum. What a meenie.....