Not saying you aren't a weirdo but controversy is usually more interesting than old music.
Could be that coddling controversy/conflict is toxic to the spirit, normalized poison.
Enjoying controversy/conflict is a deflection from issues within. It can destroy friends. The uncle at Thanksgiving dinner.
Enjoying music of fond memories releases endorphins, a comfort zone, like comfort food. It doesn’t make people hate each other. Takes one back to happier times. Music works very time. It makes friends
I’ll take old upbeat music over hate every day