Ya, nothing like having a kid of your own (and everything that goes along with it) to put things in perspective.
I don't believe anyone can put their hand on a woman’s stomach, feel a baby kick. And think, "hey, the 'fetus' is kicking".
I know of no one who considers a baby they plan to carry to term a fetus. They’re only called fetuses when the plan is to kill them because they are inconvenient.
You ever go with a pregnant woman to the Dr. for an ultra-sound? Even Dr.'s say, "would you like to see your baby?” never have heard them call it a fetus either, unless they plan to 'remove' the child.
They know it's a baby, we know it's a baby. It’s all just verbal gymnastics to justify a horrible act.