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another possibility...
If you are being ignored in H2H, it could simply be that the combat is almost instantaneous most of the time. As soon as your gear clears the runway, someone is trying to engage you. It may simply be that, very often, people are just too busy fighting to answer questions, especially if they are questions people think you should learn via the website, etc. I try to be helpful as often as possible in the MA, yet I also find myself not wanting to repeatedly answer "flight tech support" questions about simple things that the pilot asking should take the time to find out for himself. This can be done by reading on the website, and as I did a lot of, flying offline and just experimenting with everything. Just a thought....