Kieran (sorry, spelt it wrong), what saved me? Well, after a couple run-ins with the law, I figured out and was taught how to avoid running in with them.
Not to say I've changed much since I was caught... but I've changed my habits so that I can't be caught..
Except for certain particulars of my past behavior... which I have completely dropped.
Why? Probably just because I got older and realized bad toejam will happen if I kept that up.
I don't think the problem is only this kid, but in how he was raised.. which is why I think there's a chance to help him out.
I certainly do not believe letting him slide will do anything for him. I do believe, however, throwing him into "big-man" prison will be detrimental to any chance of rehab he has.
Is it possible? Yes. With most government funded programs? Possibly, but if he runs into that one counselor(sp?). The one who is basically that kid, 20,30,40 years from now. The one who was heading for deep toejam, but somehow he got changed around and is now teaching kids just like how he was how not to get that way... then probably, he probably does have a chance of getting rehabed.
I don't believe all kids that are like him (in terms of repeat offenders) in the sense that maybe there's a chance. But in the case of this kid, I dunno.. it's just the things he's been charged with don't seem as bad as other instances I know of where those kids were rehabed.
Then again, I dunno. Nothing I type here on this UBB has any effect on this kid's going to prison or not. I only wanted to challenge your position, maybe inject some thought... "Maybe this kid isn't like the ones I dealt with that were in my neighborhood... maybe there is a chance."
I dunno... I just don't like jail being used as the be-all end-all for people who may not be as bad as those that are already incarcerated, but because they have a record... then screw 'em. Afterall, I CAN remember back to when I was his age... and doing stupid toejam like he's doing, man that was a rush... but like I said, I dunno.
I can counter your scripture with more scripture, and I'm used to the "your religion is responsible" comments by now...That's not what I meant at all. Well, yeah, I was going to use scripture... but only as a means to open your eyes. Certain things in the Bible, atleast for me, always remind me of things. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you" "Turn the other cheek" <-- things like that, they serve as a second guess. "Well, if I were a dumb bellybutton teen... what would I want?" Yeah, a lot of guys I knew thought they were hard bellybutton thugs. They wouldn't mind going to prison... they could take it... hell, it seemed like a challenge.
but, later on, they figure out how stupid they were for thinking that.
That's all I'm saying.. maybe this kid needs a real reality check. His mom ain't doing it for him. I wonder if this kid was ever told to get a job? The cops ain't doing it. Hell, it ain't even their job. The Juvi detention center won't do it... rarely ever does...
I don't think this kid is a complete lost cause. And I had no intentions of insulting your religion, but to use at a means to maybe open up your eyes.. that crossed my mind.

Anyway, that's all I have to say.. if it makes ya feel any better, shoot my chute... it'll only take a bullet or two.. since it's a "softie"!

-SW