...and while I am at it, let's talk about that score issue...
At some point in time rank is bound to mean something, correct? Either through posting missions or special equipment, there has to be a good reason to have rank.
But... you can't get rank unless you have successful missions. And... you can't get successful missions (at times) because you can't get kills, because some bloke put a round in the plane 10 minutes before you saw it. Flame the bad guy if you like, but you just helped the previous bloke make Colonel. So, while score means nothing to me in most games, the very premise of WWIIOL makes scoring an integral part of the game, not just bragging rights.
So you see, minimalizing the concern over "first-hit, first-kill" isn't really such a good idea, is it now?