Dying isn't the point. The point is some aspects of a war don't really belong in a computer GAME, realistic or not.
DEATH is not the issue. What you're REPRESENTINGe. If AH pilots of 109's and 190's had to click a checkbox that said "I swear allegiance to Adolf Hitler" before taking off, wouldn't that change the character of the game (for the worse)??
In AH you shoot parachutes because it deprives the other guy of some points (or if you're like me you DON'T shoot them). The chute-shooting in AH is generally caused by the AH scoring system and isn't really related to the occurances of chute-shooting in reality.
But add a Kamikaze Zeke you'd be doing that specifically for the purpose of re-living one of the saddest chapters of Japanese history, seeing as for gameplay purposes suicide attacks work perfectly fine already.
Some things are just....distasteful.....reali stic or not. No healthy person would want to see a realistic "Gas the Jew" game. Some things are just better left OUT of a game.
Using a suicide Tiffie or N1K or whatever to sink a CV in AH is one thing.....actually pretending to BE a Kamikaze pilot, and having such as a built-in feature of the game, is entirely different, and is IMO crossing the line of decency. YMMV (but hopefully not much).
J_A_B