Kieran, your wife is lucky having you, she is lucky being with someone who loves her and children, educated, from a stable family for starters, my guess. Abortion would have never been an option with you two. To you two the idea is totally foreign. It is foreign because of your life. What if you were a wife beater, child beater. Would it be foreign to you wife then? Not all women are so fortunate. Why, with it being foreign to you, ,do you want to impose the choice you made on someone else. Your choice came from priviledge, abortions come from a lack of privlege, income, education, oppurtunities, weak will character.
Life is not all flowers and sunlight for all.
BTW your children are not fetuse. Potential is only that,nothing more.
HC