I get exasperated by some of the map whines we sometimes see, although this is a mild one by comparison. I like the realism to be there, part of which is that as members of the armed forces, we have a job to do, and rising to the challenge is part of that job. The real soldiers and airmen of WW2 did not say
Waaaah, I don't like desert sand; Waaah, I don't like this Spit 1a - I want to fly a 109E today; Waaah, it's too far to Germany. They did their job and did it well. OK, so we're not in a real war, and that is quite apparent from the way the gaminess has taken hold of AH - no elaboration needed.
Part of the problem, I suspect, is that the map whiners do not fully utilise the game. Sure, in Euro daytime hours, the numbers are low and it's hard to get a strat movement going. At the other end of the numbers spectrum, you get the numerical supremacy smashdowns, with wave after wave of TYPHs bombing the crap out of a base, or waves of B17/ju88/LANC/110/P38/P47/P51 performing suicide runs to the CV, until
eventually, they get it.
Air to air combat is OK as a means to an end, but for me it's never been an end in itself - except maybe in my first 3 months in flightsimdom. Much more fun are the well planned stealth missions - groups of jabo operating under radar cover to hit a vehicle base perhaps, so that a two pronged assault can be launched on a strategically important airfield, then to attack the second team's field while they're preoccupied with the third team - that sort of thing. Working with other people. You'll often see me with danglies on my plane. I used to be satisfied with straight air to air, but now (and nopoop will hate me for saying this) I've moved on to better things.

As of about 4¾ years ago, actually.
If more people were to work as a team with realistic goals in the service of their virtual country, the arena would be a better place. But too many people are simply looking for an exchange of lead, or seek personal glorification and/or pride of place on the scoreboard, or the gratification from an instant fix.