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Offline Cherlie

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I AM SO FREAKING MAD! need advice
« on: June 17, 2003, 02:52:09 AM »
As many of you know of my troubles with my wife and many of you know that I have decided to end the relationship....

I have not said anything to my but all the best.
All I wanted was a peacful divorce.

This is what her brothers said to my mum WHILE I was at work.

Please note that neither one was on my mum's list and they had to search for her name in order to contact her.

Do I have a right to press charges?

Here is the transcript (Skuzzy plz do not delete)


NOTE: CURLIBOO is my mother

HARGROVE1000 [10:51 AM]:  hello
 CurliBoo [10:51 AM]:  hello
 HARGROVE1000 [10:52 AM]:  dirty potato!
 HARGROVE1000 [10:52 AM]:  you and your son are trash
 HARGROVE1000 [11:21 AM]:  you need to get off your lazy bellybutton and do something with your life!!!!!!
 HARGROVE1000 [11:24 AM]:  are you lazier than Dominic?
 CurliBoo [11:26 AM]:  I think you need some soap little fella!!!  Ha! Ha!!!
 HARGROVE1000 [11:26 AM]:  who do you think you are to say **** about Kayren's family??  Like you don't want their weak blood in your family....?  they took care of your son damnit.  he lived at their house, they bought him food, they paid for insurance when dominic was too busy to support his wife......
 HARGROVE1000 [11:26 AM]:  that's weak
 HARGROVE1000 [11:27 AM]:  the only weak person is you!!!!!!
 CurliBoo [11:27 AM]:  you are so right!!!!!!!!!!  Ha! ha!!
 HARGROVE1000 [11:27 AM]:  yeah I am!!!!!
 HARGROVE1000 [11:27 AM]:  and you know it!!!!!!
 CurliBoo [11:28 AM]:  I am going to print this convo out and put it on thenet for all the people in Evansville to read!!!!   Wonder what they'llthink of you then??????????
 CurliBoo [11:28 AM]:  Rather shows up the kind of people you are doesn't it???
 HARGROVE1000 [11:28 AM]:  you think I'm from evansville??
 HARGROVE1000 [11:29 AM]:  that's funny
 HARGROVE1000 [11:30 AM]:  who the hell do you think I am?
 HARGROVE1000 [11:30 AM]:  you people are dumb ****s I swear!
 HARGROVE1000 [11:31 AM]:  you will probably die from ant bites since your house is infested with them!
 HARGROVE1000 [11:33 AM]:  You people are horrible...you think you can come to America and live off other people...America land of the free huh??? your pathetic
 HARGROVE1000 [11:38 AM]:  so you feel good too hurt other people?
 HARGROVE1000 [11:39 AM]:  you think it's fine for your son to hurt innocent 17 year olds?
 HARGROVE1000 [11:40 AM]:  You're ok with that?
 HARGROVE1000 [11:40 AM]:  Dom's ok with that?
 HARGROVE1000 [11:40 AM]:  well that's bull**** missy
KentDav8254 [11:41 AM]:  oh no i'm really fine, it's just time that you get some of the **** you dished out sent back at you.  As soon as I get off of here, i'm not going to worry; and i'm sure as hell not going to lose sleep over your bull****.  But, it's time you get back what you have said, you said that we are pathetic, and the only reason you say that is because your the one that is neurotic, and has the problem.  You have tried to make my sister look bad, but it didn't work.  She is very happy now, and she enjoys going out  
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  i will wait to see that nothing happens  
 CurliBoo [11:59 AM]:  Hummmmmmmmmm.........Big smiles!!!!!!!!!!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  because you can do nothing, when you made the contact first, by writing the letters
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  you are nothing and will never be
 CurliBoo [12:00 PM]:  No No fairy wings............it's as plain as day that you made the first contact on this convo.......squirm........... you'll need to do alot of explaining..........
 KentDav8254 [12:00 PM]:  hah who will arrest me
KentDav8254 [11:29 AM]:  Let me ask you a question.  You made the comment that you didn't want our families neurotic blood to ruin your bloodline, right?  Well, my comment to that is that your poor, you have no money.  Let alone the drive to go out and get some.  You work ****ty jobs that bring you nothing, and you have to rely on someone else to pay your bills.  Now lets see, with the college that i'm taking, in about 4 years i'll be making 600,000 a year; but you will have nothing.  My father has a ton of money, and my mother is  
 KentDav8254 [11:29 AM]:  very smart, but who do you think you are?
 KentDav8254 [11:30 AM]:  You have nothing, but your arguing with someone that has the smarts to be something.  You and your family is a joke, and don't forget it
 CurliBoo [11:30 AM]:  This is really going to make interesting reading for the guys at your church!!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:30 AM]:  ha much richer than me, hey handsomehunk concrete doesn't bend
 KentDav8254 [11:30 AM]:  You have nothing, but your arguing with someone that has the smarts to be something.  You and your family is a joke, and don't forget it
 CurliBoo [11:30 AM]:  This is really going to make interesting reading for the guys at your church!!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:30 AM]:  ha much richer than me, hey handsomehunk concrete doesn't bend
 KentDav8254 [11:30 AM]:  oh really i don't go to that church
 KentDav8254 [11:31 AM]:  so how are you going to hurt me?
 CurliBoo [11:31 AM]:  really??????  wow! learnt that at school did we?  altho' actually you are wrong.......but never mind.........who cares???
 CurliBoo [11:31 AM]:  WHy would I want to hurt you...you are doing that to yourselves right now!!!!!!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:32 AM]:  oh your right concrete that bends is called rubber
 KentDav8254 [11:32 AM]:  that's why you lost your money in it  
 CurliBoo [11:32 AM]:  REALLY???????  you should be on Mastermind..........!!!!!!!!!!Ha! Ha!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:32 AM]:  your stupid, and gullible
 KentDav8254 [11:32 AM]:  ha ha that's why i didn't invest in it
 KentDav8254 [11:32 AM]:  HA HA lost your money in a great plan
 CurliBoo [11:32 AM]:  and you are very amusing but also very sad..the pair of you..........
 KentDav8254 [11:33 AM]:  oh so sad, so so sad. No your sad, and your pathetic.  You picked on someone that wouldn't defend themself; too bad you pissed me off, because i defend all the way.
 KentDav8254 [11:34 AM]:  you pissed me off, bad idea.
 CurliBoo [11:36 AM]:  fine..............silly boy.........be pissed off.....I am fine...Dom is fine......who started this convo?  who picked on who?    continue to be pissed off.....you are making yourself miserbale for nothing!!!!!!!
KentDav8254 [11:52 AM]:  ha actually she has good friends now
 KentDav8254 [11:53 AM]:  low and messed up as me and my brother, well we will be successful, but you don't have a chance in hell
 KentDav8254 [11:53 AM]:  sorry bud, but your just a piece of ****
 KentDav8254 [11:54 AM]:  oh yeahh and is be shouldn't be used in a sentence
 KentDav8254 [11:54 AM]:  you would have learned that if you would have stayed in school
 CurliBoo [11:55 AM]:  Yea! right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  we know all about them.........you deal with the mess she gets herself into........not that you would...you're too selfish........but at least you won't be able to blame Dom when she's pregnant, drugged up to the eyeballs, drunk and in the gutter..............do NOT talk to my son again in that way............I have copied this whole convo and it's going ALL over Evansville, from the cops to the surgery, to the local papers..........etc etc.......
 CurliBoo [11:56 AM]:  If you write to me again in this way, either of you, I will sue you both for harrassment and abuse.......
 CurliBoo [11:56 AM]:  Go and crawl back under your rocks and behave yourselves...........
 KentDav8254 [11:56 AM]:  you can't  
 KentDav8254 [11:56 AM]:  you didn't copy to anywhere in evansville you lie
 CurliBoo [11:56 AM]:  It has not altogether been a pleasure talking to you......
 KentDav8254 [11:56 AM]:  besides they wouldn't listen to you anyway
 KentDav8254 [11:57 AM]:  you can't sue, becuase i have the letters you wrot
 KentDav8254 [11:57 AM]:  wrote
 KentDav8254 [11:57 AM]:  so i guess your **** out of luck aren't you
 CurliBoo [11:57 AM]:  I can do anything I like and BESIDES, I have copied it...it's undeniable...........they don't have to lister ...all they have to do is read........... ...........
 CurliBoo [11:58 AM]:  Iwrote nothing that was abusive unliie this convo that you and your brother came on to me with when I was mindin gmy own business on the net...that's all I have to say....wait for the **** to hit the fan in Evansville..... and do not contact me again.............
 KentDav8254 [11:58 AM]:  ok well your wrong you have no power
 CurliBoo [11:59 AM]:  Wait and see!!!!!!!!!!!  Taraahh!!!!!!!!!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  hah i will  
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  i will wait to see that nothing happens  
 CurliBoo [11:59 AM]:  Hummmmmmmmmm.........Big smiles!!!!!!!!!!!!
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  because you can do nothing, when you made the contact first, by writing the letters
 KentDav8254 [11:59 AM]:  you are nothing and will never be
 CurliBoo [12:00 PM]:  No No fairy wings............it's as plain as day that you made the first contact on this convo.......squirm........... you'll need to do alot of explaining..........
 KentDav8254 [12:00 PM]:  hah who will arrest me
 KentDav8254 [12:00 PM]:  the australian police?
 KentDav8254 [12:01 PM]:  lol
 KentDav8254 [12:01 PM]:  or you
 KentDav8254 [12:01 PM]:  lol you did say **** in the letters i have read them all
 KentDav8254 [12:01 PM]:  lol u're funny
 KentDav8254 [12:01 PM]:  you very much amuse me
 CurliBoo [12:01 PM]:  No one will arrest you...idiot!  that's not the idea......but people will know what you're really like when the doors are closed and you think no-one can hear you.............
 KentDav8254 [12:02 PM]:  ok no one can and no one cares but you
 CurliBoo [12:02 PM]:  I haven't got time for you anymore..........got some better things to do..........do not contact me again........


Again do I ahve legal right to file charges?

thanks CB
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Offline Maniac

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« Reply #1 on: June 17, 2003, 02:58:30 AM »
Dont press charges, djust go over there with an baseball bat...

If someone did that to my mom....
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Offline Cherlie

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« Reply #2 on: June 17, 2003, 03:02:54 AM »
I can't I live in Oz.

anyway FAMILY PRIDE is big in that family, a couple of cop cars in there would DISGRACE THEM

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« Reply #3 on: June 17, 2003, 03:24:26 AM »
Ok, I almost went into a seizure trying to follow that conversation.  Am I the only one who noticed that the time stamps jump all over the place and parts are repeated?  Cherlie, can you please edit that down to the correct sequence of the conversation?
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« Reply #4 on: June 17, 2003, 04:25:09 AM »
From the information you've given us... I'm sorry, but that's just inane drivel and all parties concerned should get a life. I'd be concerned for my mother if she was being harassed with phone calls or people were outside her house etc - but the pre-pubescent ramblings of some deranged idiots wouldn't worry me. Besides, she's got more sense to even get involved in the situation described.

The suggestion of legal action is a little silly, as is a threat of violence. Both are over-reactions in my mind.
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« Reply #5 on: June 17, 2003, 05:49:27 AM »
Dammit, no Wizzard hat?
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« Reply #6 on: June 17, 2003, 05:50:29 AM »
LoL!
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« Reply #7 on: June 17, 2003, 06:12:55 AM »
I'm speaking from zero experience, but divorces can turn into real nasty legal affairs.

The best advice I could give is to not even come close to responding to this stuff in kind. I mean, don't respond at all. Just keep records (like you did above), keep your mouth zipped and provide all this stuff to your lawyer. If your divorce is of the messy variety (or turns into that), with bickering lawyers and courts and judges and the full 3 ring circus, then this stuff might come in handy.

Your lawyer will decide if any of this can be used to help you. But it won't help if you're also on record doing the same thing. There's a chance that someone will say something tantamount to really shooting themself in the foot. You want it to be them, not you.
« Last Edit: June 17, 2003, 06:34:43 AM by Nash »
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« Reply #8 on: June 17, 2003, 07:02:50 AM »
Cherlie,

Nash hit the nail on the head.  Do not screw around anymore, get an attorney.  If you do not, from the direction I see this heading, you are on the way to a nasty divorce before this is through.  Speak to your mother and keep her apprised of what to do should they become in anyway threatening beyond an internet chat.  The key here is not to respond in kind, if you do, you are dropping to their level, and that alone will not help you at all.  Keep in mind that words are just that, words.  When this is over, you do not have to see these people and you can just ignore it from then on.  Wish you the best, and go speak to an attorney.
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« Reply #9 on: June 17, 2003, 08:02:06 AM »
Aight, aight.... yeah I put on my robe and Wizard hat....


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« Reply #10 on: June 17, 2003, 08:44:39 AM »
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Originally posted by Maniac
Dont press charges, djust go over there with an baseball bat...

If someone did that to my mom....



very well said....agree 1000%
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« Reply #11 on: June 17, 2003, 08:47:40 AM »
Have the addresses blocked from your IM account, do not respond, do not initiate contact, etc.

Get a lawyer and finalize this whole ordeal before she starts attacking your bank account instead of just your mother.
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« Reply #12 on: June 17, 2003, 08:48:14 AM »
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Originally posted by GScholz
Dowding, when do you think Grun is going to show up here and say "peace in our time" again? It's been a while now. :D


Those people are nuts, I knew it from the first time he posted and I have always been thinking he should get as far away as possible from them.
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Cherlie:
« Reply #13 on: June 17, 2003, 09:15:59 AM »
Old saying:

Manure only stinks when you stir it!
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Re: Cherlie:
« Reply #14 on: June 17, 2003, 09:39:12 AM »
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Old saying:

Manure only stinks when you stir it!


well said...

get far away and leave it alone......NOW!
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