Author Topic: need some advice about my instructor (Read 8939 times)

mia389 · « **Reply #270 on:** October 03, 2003, 09:07:30 PM »

LOL guys,,, Sorry guys I have no monitor so Im kindof screwed. Holy watermelon 6 pages now. Ok for the update. hehe you guys gonna be pissed. She showed up with another instructor, thats her best friend, a women too. Im not sure what her intentions were but I chickened out telling her, specially with her friend there. All 3 of us ended up talking for about 3 hours and about .5 of it was her talking about her wedding. I left, she called later lastnight asking to meet again tomorrow at 6pm for another "review". Im not sure if Im gonna say something since she was talking about her damn wedding today. Oh ya I was on a stage check since Im part 141, my check ride is next week. I passed my stage check and got the go for my checkride now. Ill check back in Sunday and let ya know about tomorrow night. I might say something cause Im still going nuts.

aknimitz · « **Reply #271 on:** October 03, 2003, 09:13:48 PM »

ALL THAT WAIT FOR THAT!

Alls well that doesnt end catastrophically

Congrats.

Nim

rpm · « **Reply #272 on:** October 03, 2003, 09:14:01 PM »

This might just turn out to be a good thing. You were not immediately shot down in flames, in public....the door is still open. She may have wanted her friends opinion. Women are devious in this matter. They need a second opinion. If you did not make an prettythang of yourself you possibly just passed your "checkride".

Twist · « **Reply #273 on:** October 03, 2003, 09:42:55 PM »

I don't recall things being this crazy when I was single. Back then if you dug a chick you just told her. Nowadays you have to like her 'friend' as well.

I'm glad things did not turn out any worse than they did.

Keep us posted.

Creamo · « **Reply #274 on:** October 03, 2003, 09:59:55 PM »

riveting

capt. apathy · « **Reply #275 on:** October 03, 2003, 10:01:20 PM »

when I was dating it was simple, ignore them, forget to return calls, cancel dates to hang out with my friends. if she was still around you know you're ok.

Thorns · « **Reply #276 on:** October 03, 2003, 10:46:48 PM »

This could be a TV movie...if, the ending is a cat fight between Mia's instructor and her friend, and Mia walks away with the girlfriend!

Thorns

Dinger · « **Reply #277 on:** October 04, 2003, 12:09:05 AM »

yeah, the girlfiriend was there in case you went ballistic. Keep your guidance unit. Let her talk, but the ball ain't in your court. And to be frank, keep your expectations to the minimum. You've taken your shot, now you gotta wait for the consequences. In my personal opinion, they won't be good. But even if they are, it's not in your control, and a postive outlook will only serve to crush you. So prepare for the worst, expect the worst. If it's good, well, we're all surprised, and damn happy to be wrong. It's called an aggressive defense.

capt. apathy · « **Reply #278 on:** October 04, 2003, 03:00:00 AM »

maybe her plan was to hook him up with the friend all along.

Twist · « **Reply #279 on:** October 04, 2003, 03:03:39 AM »

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Originally posted by capt. apathy
maybe her plan was to hook him up with the friend all along.

Bingo.

eskimo2 · « **Reply #280 on:** October 04, 2003, 05:26:48 AM »

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Originally posted by mia389
LOL guys,,, Sorry guys I have no monitor so Im kindof screwed. Holy watermelon 6 pages now. Ok for the update. hehe you guys gonna be pissed. She showed up with another instructor, thats her best friend, a women too. Im not sure what her intentions were but I chickened out telling her, specially with her friend there. All 3 of us ended up talking for about 3 hours and about .5 of it was her talking about her wedding. I left, she called later lastnight asking to meet again tomorrow at 6pm for another "review". Im not sure if Im gonna say something since she was talking about her damn wedding today. Oh ya I was on a stage check since Im part 141, my check ride is next week. I passed my stage check and got the go for my checkride now. Ill check back in Sunday and let ya know about tomorrow night. I might say something cause Im still going nuts.

If she brought her friend along, she's probably not quite ready to trade it her fiance for you. However, she is interested in you way beyond a teacher - student friendship, and may be considering it.

If you are going to say anything to her about how you feel, first ask her how sure she is that she's ready to get married. It's an innocent enough question that any friend could ask her, but coming from you would probably carry a sugestive second meaning. Whatever her answer, you'll be better prepared to decide what to do or say next.

Good luck mia,

We are all rooting for you!
(And you're turning us into a bunch of women! I think I'll just go buy one of those romance novels now.)

eskimo

Creamo · « **Reply #281 on:** October 04, 2003, 05:38:19 AM »

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Originally posted by Animal
Did you see the picture?

Truck Stop Waitress's need love too.

-ammo- · « **Reply #282 on:** October 04, 2003, 08:58:53 AM »

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Originally posted by Creamo
Truck Stop Waitress's need love too.

Thats your job, keep up the good work and remember to buy only Trojan brand

eskimo2 · « **Reply #283 on:** October 04, 2003, 09:37:56 AM »

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Originally posted by Creamo
Truck Stop Waitress's need love too.

I think it's been established that her job is a little beyond that of a Truck Stop Waitress.

eskimo

mia389 · « **Reply #284 on:** October 04, 2003, 10:46:46 AM »

cool My roomate let me use his monitor until mine gets fixed. Ok I meet with her tonight and I dont feel like an asss yet, so thats good. When we met last nothing was really said about my email so thats good but, she still read it and knows somethings cooking. Tonight Im sure it will be just me and her, so if it feels right Ill prolly say something. Hearing her talk about her wedding made me not wanna say a damn thing and stay away from that lol. We still had a good time though. Might just ask her out for dinner after were done reviewing for my oral. Get a few beers in her and me and that would be a good thing:D . I know for a fact I would say something then. Im still monitoring her and woundering if I should say anything at all though. For sure Im gonna have to explain that damn email. Ill tell ya how it went tonight.