Good post, Mora - very informative.
It's a long time ago now, but when I owned a car in the US, what I noticed was that there was no recognisable service schedule or network of service agents. There didn't seem to be anything akin to what I would have known as a "6000 mile service". Instead, you got your transmission serviced at Aamco, you got your brakes done somewhere else, you got your oil changed at the "Jiffy Lube", and as I recall, there was no vehicle manufacturer recommendation as to the interval between these various checks.
This is very different from Europe where, as Mora says, you take your vehicle for service at ONE place - for new cars this is likely to be the vehicle manufacturer's own service facility. There, they will use the electronic plug in job and produce a report from the car telling them what work needs doing.