Sailor,
You are just being silly, very vocal, but silly. There is no question about the necessity of the government and the necessity to fund it. The subject of this discussion is
* What is the role of the government (and consequently what are its size and its power over the citizens)?
* How should be the government funded (what kind of tax and who should pay it)
Some of us favor a very limited government (national defense, coinage, foreign policy and very few things more), funded equitably by all citizens. Flat tax comes to mind even though the rich still pay way more than poor under it. No one has a
right to anything, you have to earn what you want.
Others favor much bigger and much more powerful government whose responsibilities include enforcing utopian "social justice" and making sure that no one rises above others. The ultimate goal is not equality before the law, but the equality of outcome. In this view people have a right to shelter, food, healthcare and whatever they want, even though they can't or choose not to earn it. Once you accept this view of the government, it is only natural that you expect it to be funded on a "can afford it" basis, with the expectation that the surplus produced by some, will be redistributed by the government and consumed by underachievers.
You can take your position anywhere between those two view points, but I don't think you'll find many supporters of your view that anarchy is better option.