You are basically correct. I'm glad you understand and I accept your apology.
Two issues:
First, the obvious one: if you make the case that Obama is somehow differentiating between the broadcast statements made by Wright while Obama may or not have been in attendance at Trinity and other quite similar ones he actually heard while in the pew, that is called quibbling.
Perhaps this will help:
quib·ble (kwbl)
intr.v. quib·bled, quib·bling, quib·bles
1. To evade the truth or importance of an issue by raising trivial distinctions and objections.
In short, if he quibbled, he lied.
Mark Steyn, an astute Canadian observer of the American scene puts it succintly:
Obama listened to Wright's bilge week in, week out his entire adult life and by the end was giving this huckster over 20 grand a year to keep him in business. It seems reasonable to assume, given some of her observations on the hustings, that Mrs Obama agrees with the broad thrust of Jeremiah Wright's "theology". Does her husband?
Derb wondered the other day whether the Obama campaign was a massive "con job". But it's worse than that. If he were a con artist, he'd be like every other opportunist pol contemplating a run for the presidency: he'd be slick enough to know from the get-go that the Reverend Wright was a guy he needed to keep at way beyond arm's length; instead, he named his big pre-campaign hey-world-here-I-am book after one of his sermons. That suggests Obama didn't even appreciate Wright was a potential problem. Which, in turn, suggests a candidate as disconnected from reality as his pastor is.
Wait... let me guess.... Steyn is a Canadian racist?
Second, if you accept that quibbling as your fig leaf (and it appears that you do) then you are saying you have no interest in the truth. That plays into the hands of the politicians so many of us are sick of seeing on the national stage.
If we do not hold them accountable, we will get more of this baloney from both sides of the political spectrum. We either demand better government or we take the krap they deign to give us.
It is our call.