If AH doesn't do something about the gangbanging, I'll be gone, not that anyone will care. I'd like to be on a team that wins occasionally but I could never be a rook or bish.
Sorry to say, but if this is your attitude, then the problem you face is of your own making.
If the land war means so much to you, I suggest changing sides to the bishops. All three sides have all kinds of players, but on the whole, at the times I normally fly, the Bishops seem to be the chess piece that takes the ground game the "most seriously." By that I mean they fly missions to take bases, will defend bases, come to help when asked, etc. more often than rooks or knights. You truly may feel more "at home" there.
The squad I am in rotates countries on a regular basis. As I said, all three have all kinds of players. But for your "style" of gameplay, I would suggest a change of scenery would help your enjoyment.