2BigHorn hit it right on the head and from the source. That's the bottom line.
This is not a game for adults... there is no age limit, so in fact you might say it's a family game. Seeing we have a word filter is a pretty big clue that voice should be treated the same way, with the possible exception of private or possibly squad vox. ANY occurance like this should be filmed and sent to HTC for them do deal with, putting the final nail in the offenders coffin, drunk or not. Miscues are mistakes and if an apology is offered, let it slide, this was not the case it seems. I give many a player an apology after I've acted like a moron. Most times it's accepted but sometimes I get a back, which happened recently. I showed my true colors as did the person who gave in return for an apology he deserved. Unfortunately when this happens you can't start the film and get what has allready happened. It would be nice, but most likely abused, that if a certain person is squelched a certain number of times by the whole community he is automatically muted or tracked somehow so it can be dealt with.
TrueKill, comparing the talk in this game to the people who fought in battle with their life on the line is apples and oranges. The two aren't even remotely similar.
Skull, I hate to say it, but the more of your posts I read the less I understand them. It almost seems you post for the sake of posting and using smiley faces rather than to say anything of value.
The players who try to fix this rather than just sweep it under the carpet with a squelch are stand up people, we need more of them.