bigots, not at all.
tolerant in the city, yes.
caring in the city, no.
i will use my own sister for example... she wanted to live near the lively east side lifestyle (east side in milwaukee is where all the hippies, homosexuals, and other "alternate" lifestyles live).
she and her husband bought a house in a questionably neighborhood because it was all they could afford, and stay close to that area. she and her husband have many many homosexual friends, her bridesmaid was lesbian, his best man gay.
all of their friends live in that area, to be closer to their peers, and in an area that is more tolerant of their lifestyle choices.
yes us in the farther out suburabs are nice, and some are tolerant, some are even of "alternate lifestyle". but not nearly the ammount as on milwaukee's east side, and we out here are nto nearly as lively. gas stations close at 11, so on.
just my observations.