Author Topic: First GirlFriend (Read 1895 times)

AdmRose · « **Reply #90 on:** September 20, 2005, 12:39:56 PM »

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Originally posted by Morpheus
LOL the kids 14!
Gotta remember dude, your 14. Gfs are great but wait until you get to college. Then you'll have many girlfriends at once.

I recently got nailed for this. Apparently telling one that you're not dating her (when you're sleeping with her) and then sleeping with your ex (repeatedly) is a no-no in the womans' mind.

FuBaR · « **Reply #91 on:** September 20, 2005, 10:18:54 PM »

Still lonely...still need a hug

Lan784 · « **Reply #92 on:** September 20, 2005, 10:21:24 PM »

Lol i have a another friend thats a girl or well 3 of em besides jessica

Lan784 · « **Reply #93 on:** September 20, 2005, 11:41:41 PM »

Eagler · « **Reply #94 on:** September 21, 2005, 07:26:54 AM »

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Originally posted by FuBaR
sex is sex..."porn" is porn.

nope
when adults talk about 14/15 year olds having sex/give advice and that 14/15 year old is not your son or daughter, it is child porn and you can be thrown in jail for it. I see no humor in it.

DREDIOCK · « **Reply #95 on:** September 21, 2005, 07:39:40 AM »

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Originally posted by Iceman24
If you are nice to her constantly, tell her how much you love her, do everything in the world for her...She will walk all over you. Spit you out and look for a take charge kind of guy.

Im glad someone else already pointed this out... women do not want a wussy, they want a man... every now and then you have to act like a jerk just to keep her interested. All women will say they want the nice guy, but trust me they don't. They will saty with you maybe 2 weeks until they find some jerk... Sounds strange but thats how it works.

Very true.

Be too nice and you end up hearing "Well your really nice and I do like you. but just as a friend"

So you have to walk that fine line between being sweet..and an a-hole. seemingly teetering slightly from one side to the other.

and never never never be the first to say "I love you" or your screwed

Also. remember. the one who cares about the relationship the least is the one with the most control over it

Another balancing act here as you dont want to go too far from one side or the other

101ABN · « **Reply #96 on:** September 21, 2005, 08:24:22 AM »

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Originally posted by Lan784
why do fathers protect there daughters so much?

you have a 50/50% chance of finding out if you dont use a condom..

101ABN · « **Reply #97 on:** September 21, 2005, 08:37:52 AM »

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Originally posted by Eagler
nope
when adults talk about 14/15 year olds having sex/give advice and that 14/15 year old is not your son or daughter, it is child porn and you can be thrown in jail for it. I see no humor in it.

i see your point but if everyone was to tell him not to do it.... he would anyways.. think about when we were young (depending how old some of you ole farts really are), say 14ish.. what were we doing, hummmmm.. now this new generation is... whats a good phrase..... "out of control" and atleast what we can do is give the condom advise or the best one "enjoy the young years and worry about the gap goodie later" line.

senario.. health teacher in school is giving students (14/15 yr old) sexual advise / block of instruction on how to use a condom, is that still considered child porn... ?

Morpheus · « **Reply #98 on:** September 21, 2005, 06:05:46 PM »

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Originally posted by AdmRose
I recently got nailed for this. Apparently telling one that you're not dating her (when you're sleeping with her) and then sleeping with your ex (repeatedly) is a no-no in the womans' mind.

LOL for the most part yes. I found as the years go on at school they change alot in that respect. Freashmen year of college I thought I was on the set of some low budget porn set. Everyone hooking up with everyone else. Now four some odd years later they are talking about getting married, buying houses, getting a joint cell phone account together, or something retarded like that, or that they might be pregnant. Anything to latch on to you.

To hell with commitment until your much older Lan. Bang as many as you can in the least amount of time posible. The more of an Ahole you are to them, the more trim you will pull in both short and long term.

Simaril · « **Reply #99 on:** September 21, 2005, 07:00:22 PM »

I read the thread title and thought someone was bringing up Lewinsky again...

FuBaR · « **Reply #100 on:** September 21, 2005, 07:07:43 PM »

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Originally posted by Eagler
nope
when adults talk about 14/15 year olds having sex/give advice and that 14/15 year old is not your son or daughter, it is child porn and you can be thrown in jail for it. I see no humor in it.

I strongly disagree with that, but I dont have anything to prove you wrong, do you have any evidance of that being considered worthy of jail time?

J_A_B · « **Reply #101 on:** September 21, 2005, 08:50:05 PM »

I think I was dating my then-girlfriend for about three months before I ended up staring down the business end of her dad's shotgun. In time I ended up marrying her anyway, but her dad and I still aren't on the best of terms.

14 is pretty young to be thinking about sex. It's too young to fully appreciate the consequences, and even too young to fully enjoy the act. My general thought on condoms is if you think you need to be using one, you probably shouldn't be having sex in the first place. I've never used one and never felt any need to. Condoms aren't foolproof, and if sleeping with someone amounts to some sort of risk, then don't take that risk. Too many guys lack any self control and let their schlong do the thinking for them. We all see the consequences from such poor decisions all too often.

To put it simply....don't be a moron.

J_A_B