A couple of issues here. 1- There is a bug in the last flap position that is making the drag go crazy high. That part is obvious when you take it from the 4th to the 5th notch and it acts like it just popped a drag chute.
2- You can't derive much from a table of IAS stall speeds from the pilot manual without also posting the airspeed calibration table. Otherwise it's either inconclusive or misleading. You also have to take the same thing into account when dealing with pilot anecdotes.
Here's the chart for the 38.

According to the chart, in a clean condition the IAS on the 38 is only accurate at 200 mph. Above that it displays too high and below that it displays too low. If the real plane was indicating 377, that would be a calibrated airspeed of 360. If the real plane was indicating 83, it was really doing 100.
In landing configuration, IAS is accurate at 140 mph and keeps getting lower as airspeed falls. At 89 mph IAS, its really doing 100 mph. It's not like that in the game so you can't compare the two without switching to CAS.
Even after the bug in the last flaps position is fixed, it's still going to be undesirable to go to full flaps in a dogfight for all but a few unusual conditions.