I told myself I wasn't going to post in this thread anymore to avoid provoking anyone any further, but...
I am not suggesting we dump the model we have, having only the rammer take damage is the most fair compromise to reality we can have. My only suggestion is that the rammer take catasrophic damage from 99.999% of the rams. I don't see why folks wont admit that with the current model players "see" another plane narrowly miss colliding yet never fire, then get a "xxxx has collided with you" message in white, then have their own plane disintegrate while the person who hit them flies off.
I understand the story, for those who think nobody pays attention to what they write...what really happened was that the other player fired at the last second, but the artwork hadn't updated itself until after the other plane flew past you (according to your FE) and the damage you received was not from the impact but from bullets that you never saw fired from a plane that was not where you thought it was.
It does NOT diminish the fact that the player who collided is flying away from a high speed mid-air crash, even if it means his damage does not show up. I mean, that WAS a midair collision of there right?
I am not questioning the veracity of how the coad works, I am sure it does what Dale it says it does. None of this is meant as an affront to anyone, but a large number of players see the same thing. Perception IS reality on some level. I'd just like for someone to admit that you can be hit by another player at 200-400mph (with differential speeds of 800mph or more in some cases) and he can fly away from the collision, regarless of whether your plane disintegrates or not.
I have seen a significant rise in this effect, maybe once a week or so with the limited flying I do. My guess is that many have figured out that if you bore right into someone as if to ram and fire at the last second they'll blow up and you might get some damage from a ram (of parts?) but they are dead and you have a good chance of landing...at least a better chance of that than if you had tried ACM rather than your newfound ramming technique. Perhaps the host could discount the 1-second of damage preceeding a collision for the rammer?
Anyhow, just rambling here...sorry if I have offended anyone that is never my intent.