Seems to me, you are just trying to justify yourself for what you did.
Now you talk about a goon, the capture of a field ..... next you will say they could have won the war.

We have all picked/been picked, ganged/got ganged, vulched/got vulched etc etc i bet we have had all the same experiences (in a way or another) and from them we all decided our OWN code of conduct.
Like you have seen, some wil agree with you and some others won't, leave it at that. Don't try to explain us (that don't agree with you), that the same thing happened to you or else.

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IENA