But I think the "in lights" message may also be a reason for players to stay in fight for "just one more", especially if a player only has one kill (2 kills is actually an achievement for most players)
True but it also promotes timid and gang type play. I actually think it would reduce the player base as there are very "few" who care less about validating their achievements across system messaging. less player base would be bad

The over-riding desire for the not so "few" youth to be "seen" is paramount to their experience. the youth would need to wait till the end of tour stats to revel in their validation

The only ones who stick around are those with plenty of alt or those with plenty of friends, usually they enjoy both of these advantages
Those of us willing to stick around "without" the advantages are repeatedly sent to the tower by those mentioned above, once in a while you run into a quality engagement but these instances are becoming "fewer and fewer"
Tis the world we live in, it is a microcsym of society, "most want it all" for very little to NO risk or effort! This mindset also diminishes the potential reward

JUGgler