clearly the game to you is about the kill. To me, it's about the fight.
Youre nuts. I can spend all night in the DA with you 1 v 1 win or lose. Ask your squadmates who is rarely above 7K but on the deck immediately looking for a fight...hell, ask the guys I fly with! I've heard, "why are you down there???" about a gazillion times. I was commenting on your observation and how naive it is.
If you're all about the fight, I will be more than happy to spend lots of time in the DA with you, win or lose...we can "it's all about the fight" all night long. We'll see how much about the fight you are. This isn't a manly tough guy comment...it's just an invite to fight if you're so inclined to do as you say.