If this were Bish doing it to Knights would you have the same objections, or would you

If you can answer that honestly and say that its garbage all the way around, then it's probably lonely over there for you.
There are strategic reasons for taking the HQ down. A few days ago nobody wanted to help me take a base, so I hit bish ack, hit bish city, then went and deacked a field, moved cv closer, went and took down your hq and then hit the town with the cv, after all that I flew a goon in and captured. Was a lot of work, but rewarding to me, although I don't often have the time to do all that, many others here have way more time and do much less.
Maybe your solution is to switch countries if it's that frustrating?